In most of the adoptions I handle these days, adopting parents send their birth mother occasional pictures and letters to let her know how the baby is doing. Now and then, a mother wants ongoing personal contact with the baby in the adoptive home. While most adopting couples are not open to this, I am in contact with couples who are, and with attorneys and adoption groups who specialize in this type of arrangement. If you want a very open adoption, I can find you the adoptive family you want.